You need the Pin for the car to do this.
Alfaobd can retrieve the pin, mes works better for registering the key

If the counter has reached zero it will indeed not show anything snymore for the oil change interval. I think they believe 9 oil changes are enough for the lifetime of the car :D :D When it is not zero, doing a proxy alignment resets it to 10 again. I heard some people have succes with resetting it ...

Is the oil change counter at zero?

Like the error says: buy an elm327 or obdkey (or canticar) interface.
VAG KKL is not the same

Can you explain what a red bypass cable is?

For a 2020 giulia you will need to physically bypass the sgw and have the (blue and gray?) adapter cables as well

As long as it is a supported model, yes

No

Like the topic says, how do I interpret the MES logfile of a proxy alignment? I think that the actual "backup" config is the third line of CAN configuration data, but what are the first two lines of the CAN configuration data ? Background for this question: With MES I activated first paddl...

Since it i not possible for the Giulia or Stelvio to change the number of service coupons to a higher number, and it completely disables after 9 services, is it possible to reset the date and next interval kilometers without touching the number of service coupons? Say I have had 8 previous services ...

the SGW bypass module is a physical module you must install in your car to bypass the canbus network protection

more info here for example (is in Dutch): https://squadra-tuning.nl/obd-tools/sgw-bridge/